Hi, my name is Erin, and I am an American.
Seriously. It's the only way I know how to be.
I used to think the American way was the only way to be, and then I met people from other countries and I traveled to other places.
And then I realized:
Some people find Americans annoying.
But why?
I was in Paris, and everyone stared at me because I was wearing a white coat and white running shoes. I didn't realize. They all dress in black.
At least I spoke French moderately well.
My friend didn't. And she got mad because you can't use American cash in Paris. She complained that she could use dollars in Tijuana. The sales clerk was not amused, and she said some very nasty things. In French. Clearly these two women did not understand or want to understand each other.
I thought that since my friend was visiting France, she should try to adapt to the French way, and I told her that, but my friend thought the French woman should do things the American way because that was the only way, or at least the best way, and then I thought maybe I might be annoying too. At least to French people.
What are those factors that make Americans charming to some and annoying to others?
Indiana State foreign student advisor Gary Althen identifies some of those unique characteristics in "American Values and Assumptions," a chapter from American Ways: A Guide for Foreigners in the United States. He is writing to help international students adapt to their studies in the US, but this chapter can also be enlightening to Americans.
In this chapter, Althen identifies and describes widely upheld American values and the assumptions associated with these values. I am not his primary audience, but this chapter allowed me to see myself more analytically. I began to understand how my values influence my behavior and my beliefs. Moreover, I could see other Americans acted and believed certain things.
In this post, identify and respond to a few of the values Althen names. Do you see these values in your life? How? How does this influence the way you live?
There are many reasons why you might not hold these values in your life. If not, you might analyze why.
Or perhaps you hold some different values. What are those? How does this make you different than Althen describes?
As usual, write approximately 500 to 750 words, use relevant quotations, and provide analysis of your ideas. As usual, respond to at least two other people.
BTW, this is a bonus blog. Extra points. That means you don't HAVE to write it. But you do have to read Althen.